System and method for searching, finding and contacting dates on the Internet in instant messaging networks and/or in other methods that enable immediate finding and creating immediate contact

• US 20050086211A1
• Filed: 08/09/2004
• Published: 04/21/2005
• Est. Priority Date: 06/22/2000
• Status: Abandoned Application

• Current Assignee: Yaron Mayer
• Original Assignee: Yaron Mayer
• Inventors: Mayer, Yaron
• Application Number:
  US10/913,392
• Publication Number:
  US 20050086211A1
• Time in Patent Office: Days
• US Class Current: 1/1
• CPC Class Codes: G06F 16/24573 using data annotations, e.g. user-defined metadata
• CPC Class Codes: G06F 16/951 Indexing; Web crawling techniques
• CPC Class Codes: H04L 51/04 Real-time or near real-time messaging, e.g. instant messaging [IM]
• CPC Class Codes: H04L 51/48 Message addressing, e.g. address format or anonymous messages, aliases

Abstract

Computer dating is applied to instant messaging, in a novel, systematic and flexible way. This system and method enable the user to search and find instantly compatible dates in instant messaging networks on the basis of attribute search or 1-way compatibility search or 2-way compatibility search, and to search either for potential dates that are currently Online or also for dates that are currently Offline. Many additional features are described, and especially for example features that are based on improved integration between computer dating and instant messaging. Important features include for example: a. Integration of the dating environment with the contactee list (buddy list). b. Generating a list of compatible dates with different markings for people that are online or offline or a list divided into sub-lists or separate lists according to this. c. Applying a reverse variation by adding Instant messaging features to an Online dating site. d. Automatic instant notification when a new highly compatible date is available, instead of only periodical reports. e. Using a database of systematic pictures to which the users relate in defining their own appearance and the appearance of the desired date. f. Automatic finding of duplicate records. g. Addition of “OR” and/or “IF” relationships between questions instead of only the usual “AND”.

Claims

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4. A method for searching, finding and contacting dates on the Internet in instant messaging networks, comprised of at least the following steps:

a. Providing a Client program, located on the User'"'"'s computer;

b. Providing at least one Server, located on the Internet;

c. Providing at least one module for filling and making changes to a computer dating compatibility questionnaire;

d. Providing a search module for finding potential dates which can check also if said potential dates are currently Online;

e. Providing at least one of;

An ability to search also for dates who are not currently Online, and The ability to search for dates based on reciprocal compatibility;

f. Providing an instant messa ging element which knows if the user is currently On-line, and also enables instant exchange of messages between users.

71. In an Online computer dating system, a method of indicating to the user matching dates that are currently online differently from matching dates that are not currently online, wherein the system knows if users are currently online by at least 1 of:

a. An integration with an instant Messaging system, as in claim 4;

b. For users that gave also an IM id number, the system tries to find out if said users are currently Online through an element that contacts the relevant server, and if so, when showing a potential date'"'"'s data on a dating search results list, the system shows also said potential date'"'"'s IM id number, the IM network that said IM number belongs to, and an indication if said potential date is Online, so that the user can contact said potential date through the appropriate IM client program;

c. For users that gave also an IM id number, the system tries to find out if said users are currently Online through an element that contacts the relevant server;

d. Being Online can be defined as at least one of;

1. A user has logged into the system with the user'"'"'s user name and password not longer than a certain time ago, 2. A user has performed at least one activity in the system not longer than a certain time ago, 3. The user continues to actively use the browser, 4. A user'"'"'s computer is connected to the Internet and the user has been active at the computer not longer than a certain time ago;

e. Adding instant messaging features to a dating site.

72. The method of claim 71 wherein both a list of preferred dates is used on the dating site and a contactee list is used on a related IM client, and the user can directly copy dates from the list of preferred dates to his/her IM contactee list and/or vice versa.

73. The method of claim 72 wherein said copying can be done by at least one of:

a. Requesting the system to automatically copy to the contactee list the details of any dates that appear on the list of preferred dates but don'"'"'t appear yet in the contactee list, and/or vice versa;

b. Marking specific dates or groups or ranges of dates for copying.

c. The data is not really copied but only linked to the other list through pointers or cross-links;

d. Any dates that appear in the list of preferred dates are automatically copied also to the IM contactee list or automatically get a cross-link in the contactee list;

e. Near any potential date that is shown the user has icons for adding the date to his/her list of favorites, to his/her normal IM contactee list, or to both;

f. After clicking on an icon for adding one or more dates, the user is allowed to choose if to add the date or dates to the favorite list or to the contactee list or both.

74. The method of claim 71 wherein for determining if the user is still Online without having to send short message every certain interval, at least one of the following methods is used:

a. The client software creates a hook or interface with the communication software and/or with the routines that are activated when the OS (Operating System) is shut down so that when the user closes the client software and/or the Internet connection and/or shuts down properly the OS, the client software can still first send to the IM server a message that the user has logout out, before letting the connection to actually be closed;

b. The IM server is automatically informed by other IM clients if they try to reach a client that is considered Online but don'"'"'t succeed and thus the IM server can assume that that IM client is no longer Online;

c. If the IM server does not succeed in communicating with a client, the server can assume that the client is no longer Online;

d. If the server and/or other clients receive communications from a client that was considered to be offline, the receiving clients report it to the server and the server updates its status to Online.

75. The method of claim 71 wherein when dealing with people not currently Online the system automatically tries to come up with a list of most compatible dates who are most recent, and if the scores are not high enough and/or the list is not long enough, the system automatically decides to create instead a list containing also people who are less recent and so on in one or more steps, until the list is long enough and/or the scores are high enough and/or the recency compromise has reached backwards enough.

76. The method of claim 71 wherein if the user did not answer some questions, the system handles the missing values by at least one of:

a. Taking into account the average or most frequent answers in each question that the user did not answer;

b. Taking into account also the correlations of each missing answer with other answers;

c. Giving a lower score for matching on missing values, in a way that reflects the uncertainty.

78. The method of claim 71 wherein if the user browses through photos of actual opposite sex users, he/she can request to view photos that are similar to one or more photos that he/she likes and then the system automatically shows him/her those photos, and/or the similarity to the preferred photos is used as one of the criteria for the automatic matching, and wherein the photos of actual users are automatically analyzed in advance after the user submits it according to various parameters in order to convert it into numerical codes so that during the actual compatibility search and/or during searching for similar photos only these numerical codes are used.

82. The method of claim 71 wherein dynamic web pages are used and for updating the online status of dates on the results list and/or for faster instant messaging through the browser at least one of the following features is used:

a. The refresh command is initiated automatically by the site when there is any change in the page, so that the browser can get a refresh even if it didn'"'"'t ask for it;

b. The browser asks for refresh more often, but if nothing has changed then the browser gets just a code that tells it to keep the current page or window as is;

c. When the refresh is sent, it is a smart refresh, which tells the browser only what to change on the page instead of having to send the entire page again.

86. The method of claim 71 wherein a combination is used so that the service is done with two separate interfaces—

one as an Instant Messaging network with dating features added to it and one as a dating site with Instant Messaging features added to it, but the same database is used, so that practically the users can be matched with compatible users from the entire database, no matter which interface they used.

87. The method of claim 86 wherein the adding of IM features to the dating site is by at least one of:

a. Connecting directly to the IM network, so that the user can know if any matching date is Online according to the IM network;

b. Using at the dating site also any of the other systems or methods of claim 71 for determining if someone is currently Online, so that the system can know if users are Online or offline even if they choose not to use the client program of the IM network.

88. The method of claim 71 wherein at least one of the following features exists:

a. The user is given on a regular basis relevant statistical details about how many other matching dates have viewed his/her data but were unable to contact him/her because they did not pay;

b. The user is informed based on real-time notification when a highly compatible match, according to one or more criteria, viewes the user'"'"'s data;

c. Each user can also remove himself/herself automatically from all the contacted lists where he/she is listed and/or at least block certain users by at least one of being deleted from their contactee lists or equivalents of contactee lists and making the system never let them know that the user is online;

d. Users are encouraged to pay by giving them a partial experience, so that the user can contact dates even if he/she didn'"'"'t pay, but can send each potential date only a limited number of messages if he/she did not pay;

e. IM features are added to an Online dating site and the contents of each page or window that contains an IM session are saved on the user'"'"'s computer and/or on the dating site, so that even if the window is closed and the user reopens it, the history of the IM session and/or all the history of communication with the given other user is available to the user;

f. The time needed for filling the questionnaire is speeded up by defining radio and/or checkbox buttons as wider than their height, so that without unduly large line-spacing the user can easily mark or unmark such areas without having to reach precisely the exact point in terms of right/left;

g. The system automatically indicates near each person in the user'"'"'s contactee list and/or in his/her date-search results list if that person has added the user to his/her own contactee list;

h. When someone adds the user to his/her contactee list, the user can get an automatic notification about this and can be automatically invited to view the other person'"'"'s data and/or the compatibility score with the other person and/or to make the link reciprocal;

i. The mark that indicates if someone is currently online and/or the availability status of each date is automatically updated also on the list of compatible dates at least if the user saves the list or keeps the window of the list open, like in the automatic updating of the contactee list;

j. The system can give the sender of an Instant Message a confirmation if and/or when the recipient has opened and/or read the Instant Message;

k. Instead of sending the notification as soon as possible after the new date becomes available, the system waits until one or more such highly compatible dates become available and if they do then the message is sent immediately, otherwise the system waits a certain time limit, and if no additional highly compatible dates that meet the criteria become available, then the message is sent anyway;

l. The questionnaire contains at least one question that is variable according to at least one of Country, culture and/or religion and/or other relevant significant background parameters, so that certain cultures and/or religions and/or countries and/or users with other significant relevant background can have one or more specific questions that are relevant only to that group of people and wherein such variable questions are taken into consideration only among users who have both answered them and/or who belong to the relevant group or groups;

m. If questions are added to the questionnaire, each user is automatically invited to fill only the new questions, and the new questions automatically appear at least one of;

When the user becomes online, when the user enters the dating site and when the user tries to perform certain acts in the site

92. The method of claim 71 wherein the user can scroll over various parameters of synthesized speech and/or a systematic set of recordings of real voices and/or real voices that are manipulated by the computer to reflect different parameters, in order to select or choose a voice similar to his/her own voice and/or types of preferable voice in the preferred dates and wherein at least one of the following features exists:

a. The system can use these choices as additional selection criteria;

b. If an actual recording of the user is available, this is analyzed automatically according to the relevant criteria and used in addition or instead of the systematic sounds to which the users refer;

c. The user can browse potential dates and request to view potential dates with a similar voice.

96. The method of claim 71 wherein at least one of the following features exists:

a. The system can show near each user or compatible date that is currently online if he/she is currently engaged in another IM session and/or chat with one or more persons, and/or in how many such sessions he/she is engaged and/or with how many other users;

b. The system can show statistics for each user, such as to what percent of messages that user has responded, and/or his/her average time for response;

c. The system can show for each potential date how many other people already sent messages to that person so far since he/she joined or for a certain recent period;

d. The sender gets an indication when the user to which the IM message was sent (and/or even for non IM messages) sees the message;

e. Whenever a user gets a new IM message he/she also gets an auditory indication with a vocal message by the system that identifies the user who sent the message.

101. The method of claim 88 wherein the implementation of the wider buttons by the browsers is changed so that at least one of the following features exists:

a. The elongated squares are visible all the time;

b. The elongated squares are visible whenever the mouse is within the area of one of them even before the user clicks on it;

c. The specific square becomes visible when the mouse is within its area, even before clicking on it;

d. The radio or checkbox button itself is shown in the elongated form, and the mark within it is also enlarged accordingly automatically, or the “

style”

command is expanded to include also the ability to define the size of the mark within the button;

e. The programmer can define a separate elongation to the right and to the left of the button.

102. The method of claim 71 wherein the time needed for filling the questionnaire is speeded up by at least one of the following:

a. Improving the html command set and/or the Javascript command set so that it is possible to define which button or buttons will be activated by default if the user presses the Enter Key and/or the Space Key;

b. Improving the html command set and/or the Javascript command set so that it is possible to define which button or buttons will be activated by which keys, so that any key or keys or at least some keys can be associated with at least some buttons.

103. The method of claim 71 wherein the system is able to detect and/or report automatically cases where users stop filling the questionnaire in the middle and/or quit for some reason and/or too much time has elapsed since the user began filling the questionnaire or some part of it.

107. The method of claim 72 wherein clicking on a date or on an icon next to him/her in the IM contactee list can automatically open a browser window on the dating site with the page that lists the data on that date or the page that shows the list of preferred dates.

110. The method of claim 71 wherein the system tries to prevent cases of users filling their wrong sex by at least one of the following means:

a. The system indicates the self-marked sex clearly after the person has marked it, so that if the user made a mistake he/she can clearly see it;

b. If the system has at least some sex-different questions, the system indicates near these questions that if the question does not fit then probably the user has made a mistake in indicating his/her own sex;

c. The system automatically checks if the requested wanted date'"'"'s age range in comparison to the user'"'"'s own age fits the usual pattern of the marked sex, and warns the user in case it does not, to make sure if he/she filled the correct sex;

d. The system is able to make automatic analysis of the user'"'"'s photo, if the user provided a photo, and can automatically indicate if it does not fit the marked sex.

111. The method of claim 71 wherein the user can request to sort the results according to any one or more specific questions which the user can choose from the questions that exist in the questionnaire, even when more questions are used for computing the security scores beyond those that are used for the sorting.

118. The method of claim 71 wherein the system can allow users to explore connections between users, and the connections can be automatically defined by at least one of:

a. When a user brings friends to the service;

b. When two people exchange messages and/or add each other to their contactee lists, i.e. become reciprocally linked through their contactee lists;

c. Each contactee list can be regarded as a list of links to the persons that are included in it regardless of whether the user is also in the other person'"'"'s list.

125. The method of claim 71 wherein at least one of the following is done to encourage users to add new users to the service:

a. Users can get a free membership for a certain period for each new user that they add to the service;

b. Each user can make some profit as a percent of subscription fees paid by new users that he/she has brought to the service;

c. Each user can make some profit as a percent of subscription fees paid by new users that he/she has brought, and to a lesser extent, also revenues from additional users brought by these additional users, until a certain cumulative percent and/or certain maximum amount and/or until a certain level in the tree;

d. Each user can make some profit as a percent of subscription fees paid by new users that he/she has brought, and to a lesser extent, also revenues from additional users brought by these additional users, and this tree structure can be traced by the users on the Internet so that each user can know how many “

agents”

are working in the logical tree below him/her at any time and/or how much each of them sold and/or what his/her credit status is at any time;

e. When users bring new users to the service, the added friend or new user also gets some benefit compared to users which were not brought by other users;

f. Each user can perform a single action which automatically sends a message about the dating service to all the people in his/her IM contactee list.

135. The method of claim 71 wherein in order to encourage people to upload their pictures at least one of the following is done:

a. People who did not upload at least one acceptable picture of themselves can view only the first picture of each potential mate even when that mate has uploaded more pictures, together with an indication that additional pictures of this user are available to users who have uploaded their own picture;

b. People who did not upload at least one acceptable picture of themselves see the pictures of other members only in smaller format and/or in lower resolution;

c. People who did not upload at least one acceptable picture of themselves see each picture with a missing or blocked part in it;

d. People who did not upload at least one acceptable picture of themselves see each picture with a missing or blocked part in it, and the blocked part contains the message inviting the user to upload his/her own photo so that he can see the full images undisturbed.

137. The method of claim 71 wherein near potantial dates is shown how many other users added that person to their contactee list through the dating service and/or how many already sent messages to that person so far and/or how many people from the dating service that person already added to his/her contactee list and/or contacted so far.

138. The method of claim 137 wherein these statistics are automatically also normalized to include a score that takes into account also how long that person has been in the service, and/or how often he/she is active in the dating activity of the service, and/or the system shows near the potential date also how long he/she has been in the service, and/or how often he/she is active in the dating activity of the service.

140. The method of claim 118 wherein at least one of the following features exists:

a. The connections can shown to the user in a shape of a graph;

b. The system uses can show near each compatible date (or near each compatible date for which the user requests such analysis) if he/she is related to the user through any of the above connections, and then the user can click on an appropriate link or icon near the person and explore this connection by viewing a graph that shows the relevant links;

c. The connections can shown to the user in a shape of a graph and the graph shows also automatically the strength of the links by a different color and/or thickness of the link and/or by other indication;

d. The user can mark which of his/her contactees can be viewed by other users or by other users which are already connected to that user, and the default is that his/her contactees can be viewed or the default is that they cannot be viewed;

e. If two users have the same person on their contactee list directly or through a few additional steps, and/or the same person has such a reverse link to them, the system can automatically indicate to these users that they have a common friend and/or indicate how many such common friends they have and/or indicate who these common friends are and/or how they are connected and/or use this as part of the search criteria.

141. The method of claim 103 wherein this detection is used for at least one of:

a. Obtaining statistics about what percent of users have problems with each part of the questionnaire and/or finished some parts but not other parts;

b. Sending an appropriate email to such clients, with questions on what exactly was the problem.

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45. In an Online computer Dating service, a method wherein a systematic data pool of pictures and/or images of males and of females is used, and the pictures are at least one of photographs and systematically drawn images, and each user can at least one of:

Mark at least one picture that is most similar to said user, and Mark the pictures of the opposite sex that said user most likes.

77. The method of claim 45 wherein when there is no direct match between the marked self image of the date and the user'"'"'s marked preferences in these images, or vice versa, the system takes into account also the distance or similarity between the preferred images and the actual image, and at least one of the following features exists:

a. Said distance or similarity analysis is based on systematic classification of the images according to various variables;

b. Said actual image is the image or images that were marked by the other person as most similar to himself/herself;

c. The relevant parameters of each image are coded in advance as numeric data so that no actual image analysis is done during the compatibility search;

d. If the date submitted also an actual photo then the analysis of distance or similarity can be done in addition or instead also on the actual photo.

89. The method of claim 45 wherein at least one of the following features exists:

a. The systematic images are images that are automatically generated by the computer;

b. The user can request to browse photos of actual users that are similar to any of the systematic photos that the user marked as desirable;

c. If a user submits an actual photo this photo can be automatically analyzed in order to correct the estimate that the user gave about how similar he is to photos of the systematic pool of images;

d. The user can supply an actual photo and have it converted automatically by the system to an approximate image so that the approximate image is similar to him/her but not exactly the same and/or looks like one of the systematically drawn images.

90. The method of claim 45 wherein for the more modular choices at least one of the following features exists:

a. The users are shown the modular elements separately;

b. The user can mark or choose the modular elements within full or partially full faces and/or full or-partially full body images;

c. The user can mark or otherwise indicate that he/she wants a date with a certain one or more element similar to that element or elements in a given image or a given photo, and then the system at least one of;

Changes the image accordingly, Brings the user to the appropriate place in the taxonomy, Generates the relevant part of the taxonomy on the fly, and Displays multiple similar images next to each other;

d. The systematic images used are images that are automatically generated by the computer and the choices can be automatically generated on the fly for the user according to his/her previous choices;

e. The choice of the preferred images in the taxonomy can be by clicking on the part of the face or of the body that the user most likes and then the system automatically knows where to proceed according to that part, so that by clicking on a certain part in a certain image the user both chooses the desired image and a specific element in it;

f. When the user clicks on an element in an Image, the system can ask the user if he/she wants to view more images with the same or similar element or specific type of choice about that element, or any combination of the available types of choices for that element, or view similar images where the chosen element is different;

g. When the user clicks on the hair in an Image, the system can ask the user if he/she wants to view more images with the same or similar hair color, the same or similar hair style, the same or similar hair length, or any combination of the above, or view similar images where these elements are different;

h. By clicking on an element with one mouse button the user can request to see more images with a similar element and by clicking with another mouse button the user can choose to change the element and/or what to change in the element;

i. The user can use at least one of the scroll button of the mouse, the arrows and other keys, in order to have the chosen elements or elements change instantly on the same image across the various available options;

j. For defining his/her own appearance the user uses more the functions of changing various modular elements until the right appearance is selected, and for defining the desired date the user uses more the functions of showing similar appearances, since when defining preferences typically there is a large range of variations that the user may like.

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97. A dating system over an interactive TV network, wherein to determine if someone is currently Online system uses at least one of the following methods:

a. The Cable TV or satellite decoder or set-top-box senses any button that the user presses on the remote control and/or even senses if other remote controls are used, and if any such button has been pressed within a certain time period, the system assumes that the user is currently Online;

b. The said decoder can sense the signal of turning the TV on or off and assumes that someone is “

Online”

if the TV is currently turned on;

c. The said decoder senses if the TV is currently on by sensing the electromagnetic field emitted by the TV;

d. Such detection features are integrated in the TV itself;

e. Someone is considered Online only if he/she is currently on the Interactive TV channel;

f. The decoder has a video camera and/or volumetric sensor and/or other sensor or sensors that can sense automatically if someone is moving in the room and/or is sitting in front of the TV.

98. The system of claim 97 wherein for implementing IM features over an Interactive TV network the system uses at least one of the following methods:

a. The user can receive instant messages on the screen, at least when he/she is in the same interactive channel;

b. If the user is in another channel, the user can at least receive some non-interfering visual and/or auditory indication that an IM message has arrived;

c. For sending IM messages the remote control contains also letter keys and/or some additional keyboard is available for this.

d. The IM messages can be vocal messages;

e. The IM messages can be vocal messages, enabled by including a microphone in the remote control;

f. There is also a speaker on the remote control.

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